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Diary of a Dinner Party

I decided to throw a dinner party to bring together my friends before we all got lost in the summer madness and to celebrate my husbands birthday.

Though I am no expert on how to throw a party I have done it several times and I thought it might be fun to share the party process in a fast forward timeline here with you.

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First: Getting Started

  • I picked the date, May 26th.
  • I came up with a theme for the party so that I could pick an invitation.
  • I decided to have a sit-down dinner outside so that everyone could enjoy the garden.
  • I made a list of who I wanted to invite.
  • I went to the stationary store M.Hopple which is a locally owned stationary and gift store.  They have a great selection of stationary always on hand.
  • I ordered the cutest invites and got them in the  mail by April 30th.
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  • I try to get the invites in the mail 3-4 weeks previous to the party.
  • The RSVP’s started coming in and I kept a running update on my invite list, so I would know who and who had not RSVP.  It would be a dinner party for 22.

Second: Getting Game Plan Together

  • Two weeks before the party I started writing the menu.
  • Called a few girls that I know to help with service.
  • Called the rental company to order tables, chairs and linens.
  • Got to work on finishing up the spring chores around the house.  I have to say even though throwing a party is a lot of work (especially if you are doing all the cooking) it really gets you motivated to get things done around the house!
          • Mulch put down-check
          • Pots planted-check
          • Windows cleaned-check
          • Patio Furniture cleaned-check
          • Weeds pulled-(mostly) check
  • With that done and the number of invitees firmed up, I finished the menu.  I chose to go with an Italian themed menu, cuz everyone loves Italian!



Main Course


          • Blueberry-Cheese Tart
          • Chocolate Strawberries rolled in Pistachio
  • I always like to hand my guest a gift as they leave and this time I decided to make iced sugar cookies in the shape of a daisy to keep with the garden theme.
I will be posting recipes here over the next week

Third: The Final Countdown:

  • I start writing a final week timeline to help myself keep on track and not get overwhelmed at the last few days.  I used an app called Evernote to help me keep all my lists on all my electronic devices, so whether I was sitting in the kitchen or at the grocery store I can access my lists for the party.
    • Call Florist to Pick Flower Arrangements and choose a time for delivery.
    • Email Rental Company to dd any new additions and confirm the time for delivery and pick-up.
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10 Centerpieces for 24′ length of the table.  These are so beautiful!

    • Bake Sugar Cookies
    • If you have out-of-town guests coming, make sure linens and towels are fresh
    • Grocery Store run
    • Make Tart Shells
    • Ice Sugar Cookies and bag them up so they are ready for people to take home
    • Pick outfit for dinner party
    • Costco-for larger items
    • Target-candles, bug deterrent
    • Make Filling & Blueberries topping, finish assembling Tarts
    • Clean Patio and Patio Furniture (Move patio furniture to make room for rental tables)
    • Lay out string for temporary Bocce Ball Court
    • Pull out Bocce balls and clean-up
    • Finish last-minute weeding and trimming of spent flowers
    • Finish Chocolate covered Strawberries
    • Boil Potatoes, do not cube (store in refrigerator)
    • Blanch Green Beans (store in refrigerator)
    • Make topping for Salmon
    • Make dressing for Potatoes
    • Make dressing for Salad
    • Make Marinade for Shrimp
    • Cut and clean lettuce
    • Make sure grass is trimmed and mowed
    • Start cleaning house
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    • Ice water and white wine
    • Make Balsamic Glaze for Caprese skewers
    • Thaw shrimp
    • Finish cleaning house
    • 12 p.m.- Make tomato and Mozzarella skewers
    • 12 p.m – Prep Shrimp Skewers
    • 1 p.m – Prep Salad
    • 2 p.m – Prep Potatoes
    • 2 p.m – Prep Green Beans
    • 4 p.m – Prep Salmon
    • 4 p.m – Grill Beef
    • 4 p.m – Grill Shrimp (refrigerate)
    • 5:30 p.m. – Help arrives give instructions
      • Set table
      • Slice Beef and Keep covered
      • Keep appetizers fresh
      • Dress and Toss Salad
      • Dress and Toss Green Beans
      • As guest arrive, pass appetizers
      • Light Candles on Table and Patio at 7:30
      • Fill Water Glasses on Table
      • Bake Salmon
      • Serve Salad to table at 8:30 (be flexible)
      • Serve Dinner to table at 9:00 (be flexible)
    • Shower and Dress
    • 7:00 Guest Start Arriving, ENJOY!!

The table looked so beautiful!  I used a burlap tablecloth, white and tan napkins, white plates, gold votives and beautiful Sunflowers.

To help fight bugs while we were eating I placed Off Clip Mosquito Repellent Cartridge on the table in between flower arrangements.  Which worked really well.

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Even though the temperature went up to 92 on Saturday by the time 7:00 rolled around the patio was in the shade and the temperature had dropped just enough that everyone was comfortable outside.

Though I did set up a Bocce Ball court, no one played, but they did walk around and enjoy the gardens and everyone enjoyed a cocktail and catching up with each other.

    When we sat to eat dinner the temperature outside was perfect! 🙂

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 10:00 p.m. – We Lit Lanterns

I decided to surprise my husband by ordering Night Sky Lanterns to be lit and released in honor of his Birthday.  Very Cool!!  More information on these to follow.
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 Jim and I were very happy to share a wonderful evening with such good friends!!

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6 comments on “Diary of a Dinner Party”

  1. Your evening looked amazing – fantastic menu, gorgeous table decorations and thoughtful invitations… wish I was there!

    1. Thank you! Everything came together- I was very happy and relieved!!
      I love the wicker basket you have planted in your garden, its beautiful-the Dahlia too. 🙂

  2. Amy, What a perfect evening! Had a great time, loved the chickens, that one rooster is soo pretty. Not sure if you should call a rooster pretty but he is! I love this blog, you are amazing! kathy

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    I just subscribed to your blog and I’m enjoying it so much! This looks like a perfect party! Thanks for sharing it!

    1. Thank you, everything turned out wonderfully, which is always a relief after all the work! 🙂 Just checked out your blog and subscribed. We have a group of Toms that have been visiting almost daily. I think they hear our roosters and are intrigued. They haven’t gotten near the garden, thankfully! Good Luck with the start of your blog.

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